Tuesday, December 7, 2010

How To Have A Sexy Killer Smile

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A great smile can improve your entire appearance by making you look younger and feel more confident. Here's how to make yours stand out.

Get in the habit. You can't have good teeth if you don't brush and floss twice a day. Focus on the gum line, where plaque lingers, and try a whitening toothpaste to remove stains. I also recommend professional cleanings every three to four months to reduce plaque and prevent tooth decay.

Bright ideas. For whiter teeth, a drugstore bleaching kit may do the job. If not, book an office treatment, which whitens with a higher concentration of hydrogen peroxide and costs about $500. Afterward, cut back on coffee, red wine, and dark sodas. Or drink them with foods so they are less likely to leave a yellowing residue.

Material concerns. It's very common to replace silver fillings with porcelain ones now. Besides the aesthetic concerns, the metal may raise mercury levels. For gaps or spaces between teeth, consider cosmetic bonding; it adds a thin layer of white composite resin to the enamel. However, resin chips and stains easily, so you'll need to brush and floss well.

Fake it. Those of us not born with perfectly shaped teeth usually get the look with veneers—thin sheets of porcelain applied directly to the enamel. The procedure is not cheap, so always see pictures of your dentist's work beforehand, and ask him to apply temporary veneers, which stick to the surface (and only last for one day) but give you a sense of the finished image. As a less costly option, I advise patients to get veneers on the most noticeable four to six front teeth, then whiten the rest to match. The results are great, without the huge investment.

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If You Seek....

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Wednesday, October 20, 2010

10 Timeless Pieces: Classic Style Essentials That Every Chic Woman Needs

Not sure about what wardrobe pieces to invest in? We pick our faves (including some uber cute pieces from a|Wear) and featured the top 10 looks that every woman should have in her closet.


The LBD
The little black dress is timeless and elegant, a must-have item for every woman's wardrobe and works for many occasions or time of year. The trick to making it modern and individual is by pairing it with anything from edgy ankle boot/textured tights, to stacks of estate necklaces and a retro 1940's bolero.


The White Shirt
Think of it as your canvas to create any look you want as a quality version goes with everything from jeans to a fun satin ball gown skirt.

The Business Handbag
Often the most important part of your work ensemble, every stylish woman notices and appreciates a great work tote. Don't buy the hot 'IT' bag, go vintage for a fresh look.

The Sophisticated Wallet
Think of your wallet as a direct reflection of how you manage your lifestyle. You don’t want to be ashamed to pull out a disheveled wallet from your bag. A clean, classic wallet goes a long way.

The Evening Clutch
The perfect touch for an evening out on the town, clutch bags are chic and sleek enough to fit your essentials. For less expensive options, check out vintage shops.

The Timeless Watch
Don't worry about the trends when it comes to purchasing a classic timepiece. Choose a watch that works best for you and matches your personal style and it will work season after season. I love an oversized men's watch on a woman.

The Long, Lightweight Scarf
The perfect addition to almost any outfit. Wrap around your neck or wear as a shawl or wrap. Go ethnic or animal print, a bold color, or crisp white.

The Sex Kitten Black Pump
With so many great options to choose from these days, look for the best pair you can afford as this accessory is often the first item people notice when you walk into a room. Make sure the heel and toe are timeless--and not trendy (ie, too pointed or too thick).


The Easy Boyfriend Jean
You know those jeans you could just live in everyday: worn-in and comfortable. Give your body a break and slip into a comfy jean for weekends. No woman should try to look sexy every day. Get an amazing and wallet friendly pair at a|Wear or just borrow his!

The Embellished Cardigan
Take a cue from all the designers - Marc Jacobs, Prada and our fave a|Wear and get yourself an uber cute uber now embellished cardigan and don't be alarmed by all the compliments being thrown your way! Wear it with a dress, jeans, or skinny pant, swap out tops and add accessories for an after-work pick-me-up. Haven't you heard? Cardigans rule!

FLORAL MADNESS


Given the temperature and upcoming holidays, one may go to sleep and dream of Halloween candy or red velvet party dresses, but when we close our eyes, visions of spring dance in our heads. Specifically, things like Alexander Wang’s white suits and Loeffler Randall’s brilliant shoe collaboration with Suno. We’ve spent the past month scouring images of models in white and florals and ruffles and stacked sandals and retro wedges and stellar sunglasses and despite the grey skies we’re desperate for a dose of spring. So when we heard that a|Wear was culling the best of spring and putting it up on the ever fabulous site smack dab in the middle of October, well, we actually jumped for joy (just a bit). These amazing floral dresses are just want the doctor ordered! Wear them out on the town or to paint the city red (haute red) these frocks are perfect for every occasion. With it's wallet friendly price we can indulge all we want with out having to sacrifice our rent money (Alexander Wang I'm talking to you!) !!!!

To get your hands on this so right for fall but chic enough for spring check out www.awear.com !

Sunday, October 10, 2010

HAUTE, SEXY HAIR..............

From the innocent to the extreme, these stars have mastered the looks of seduction.

The Sex Kitten: Brigitte Bardot

The phrase was coined in 1958 to describe a sultry new French actress named Brigitte Bardot. These lush beauties share her tousled hair, plump lips, and long lashes.


The Femme Fatale : Madonna

Everything about her look—the bold lips, the sharp brows, the androgynous hairstyle—is potent and threatening.


The Rocker Chick : Deborah Harry

This woman's sensuality is a mix of heavy eye makeup, mussed-up hair, and a defiant attitude.


The Girl Next Door : Jennifer Aniston

With their clean, shiny hair, clear skin, and soft pink lips, these women have a friendly, familiar appeal.


WHAT TYPE OF WOMAN ARE YOU?

Haute Toy of The Month : PIRATES PENDANT VIBES


Yo-ho-ho, a bottle of rum and some decadent fun! The coolest-ever orgasms await you when you explore sensation with the most unique bullet vibrator inspired by Digital Playground produced awe-inspiring Pirates and Pirates II: Stagnetti's Revenge PIRATES PENDANT VIBE ! The PIRATES PENDANT Vibe is literally intensity at your fingertips with this teardrop-shaped waterproof vibrator; use its tapered tip more directly for even more focused sensation. Strong and portable, the PIRATES PENDANT's petite size holds a surprising amount of power, and it's capable of 3 intensity levels, mild to strong, so you can pick your favorite and stay with it, or ramp up to higher highs..... Its easy-to-grip handle lets you put the sensations and vibration right where you want them - added bonus it's so discreet you can use it literally everywhere ... Ladies & Mates, experiment with clitoral or penile vibes followed by a warm mouth, or cool off a hot vaginal introitus between bouts of penetration - the sky and orgasms is the limit with this vibe!!!!


Thursday, September 9, 2010

Treats & Toys That Boost Sexual Performance

Spanish fly. Rhinoceros horn. Phallic-looking foods. Throughout history, people have gone to a lot of trouble—not to mention putting their health in danger, in some cases—trying to find libido boosters to improve their sex lives. Today pleasure seekers have it easier because, as it turns out, the grocery store and a certain online adults only toy mecca - CalExotics® are the perfect places to find these decadent aphrodisiacs. Bonus: In addition to making sex a little steamier, nearly all these treats and toys have health benefits beyond the bedroom and then some!

1.Chocolate
This dark, delicious dessert has long been associated with indulgence, but that’s not the only reason chocolate puts you and your guy in a sensual mood. The treat contains caffeine, which helps perk you up and also boosts serotonin and dopamine, neurotransmitters that contribute to feelings of well-being and happiness, according to the American Dietetic Association.

Chocolate brings on feelings of euphoria—like in the movie Chocolat. It’s a psycho-stimulant so it has an arousal effect. That’s because chocolate contains phenylethylamine, a chemical with an amphetamine-like affect that temporarily mimics feelings of falling in love. In fact, a 2007 British study found that letting chocolate melt in your mouth is more stimulating and raised heart rates more than kissing. Chocolate, particularly dark chocolate, is also loaded with antioxidants that improve circulation and lower cholesterol. Photo: iStockphoto


2. Pumpkin Pie
The next time you want to seduce a guy, bake a pumpkin pie. A study that measured blood flow south of the border in men ages 18 to 64 found that the scent of pumpkin pie rated the highest response—a 40 percent increase to be exact, according to Alan R. Hirsch, MD, neurological director of the Smell and Taste Treatment and Research Foundation in Chicago and author of Scentsational Sex. Lavender rated equally high, while close runners-up included donuts and black licorice, which boosted blood flow to men’s nether regions by more than 31 percent. As surprising as it may seem, when it comes to sex, scent offers a greater libido lift than ingestion: Ninety percent of what people call taste is actually smell. The scent of these foods may reduce anxiety, which helps remove inhibitions. Photo: iStockphoto


3. Good & Plenty Candy
You probably won’t look at the candy counter at the movies the same way after reading this: Smelling Good & Plenty, the popular licorice-flavored candy, caused a 13 percent increase in vaginal blood flow, according to research. Why? He points out that the scent may trigger olfactory nostalgia, such as positive memories from childhood as well as feelings of security and safety—a state of mind that helps make sex more relaxing and enjoyable. Oddly enough, the smell of cherries had the opposite effect on women, causing an 18 percent reduction of vaginal blood flow (in other words, a real turn-off). Photo: Courtesy of Amazon.com


4. Oatmeal
You may not have heard of L-arginine, but this common amino acid is a precursor to nitric oxide, a substance that enhances the arousal response,. Good food sources of L-arginine include oatmeal and granola as well as nuts, seeds, dairy, and seafood. So the next time you’re on a date at a romantic restaurant, suggest the pasta with pine nuts or salmon—sexy, mutually beneficial menu options such as these will ensure your evening ends on a high note! Photo: iStockphoto


5. Oysters
It’s a sensual experience to eat oysters, but these delicacies from the sea are aphrodisiacs for another reason too. Oysters are bursting with zinc, a mineral used in the production of testosterone (and sperm), which plays a role in fueling the sex drive of both men and women. American and Italian chemists who looked at oysters, mussels and clams found the shellfish were packed with rare amino acids that triggered increased levels of sex hormones in animals. What’s more, oysters contain taurine, an amino acid with a caffeine-like effect (it’s used in Red Bull) for alertness and physical endurance. Photo: iStockphoto


6. Fish
It may sound a bit fishy and not so sexy, but foods rich in omega-3 fatty acids such as mackerel, wild salmon, halibut, and sardines as well as flaxseed, nuts and oils (think olive and soybean) can take your sex life from lukewarm to hot. Here’s how: Essential fatty acids are the building blocks of sex hormones in men and women and help fight the buildup of plaque in the arteries, thereby improving circulation and increasing sensation. Omega-3 fatty acids help with sexual response, by helping to raise dopamine levels in the brain that trigger arousal, They’re important for energy, memory, mood, and libido.Not a fan of fish? Try taking 1,000 milligrams (or 1 gram) of fish oil supplements daily and be sure the supplement includes the omega-3 fatty acids eicosapentaenoic acid (EPA) and docosahexaenoic acid (DHA). Photo: iStockphoto

7. Seeds and Nuts
Like oysters, pumpkin seeds and pine nuts are rich in zinc, which help the body produce testosterone—and, in your man’s case, sperm. Added attraction: Nuts, including almonds, are also good sources of the aforementioned omega-3 fatty acids, which help prevent plaque accumulation in the arteries and improve blood flow throughout the body (including to the genitals). What’s more, nuts and seeds are powerhouse foods, full of protein and healthy fats, which give you a boost of energy both in and out of the bedroom. Photo: iStockphoto

8. Garlic
Although you’d think garlic would ruin, rather than improve, your love-making sessions, it turns out that it contains allicin, an ingredient that increases circulation, including down south, which helps improve sensation. The action of finely chopping garlic releases allicin, so be sure to crush the garlic first and then add it to pasta sauce or garlic bread. The key to not getting knocked out by garlic breath? Level the playing field by eating a garlic-heavy meal with the object of your affection.Photo: iStockphoto

9. Avocados
The deep green fruit contains vitamin B6, which helps produce serotonin, the feel-good hormone, says Neville. Another bonus for you and your partner: Avocados are also loaded with vitamin E, which enhances circulation and is believed to stimulate the production of passion-stimulating testosterone. Research published in the journal Archives of Andrology showed that vitamin E helps improve semen quality and motility. Photo: iStockphoto
10. Couture Collection ® bliss
It has been said that bliss is best when it's shared, and the sexy fun of the CalExotics® Couture Collection ® bliss Bullet is just that. It won’t be a secret how much ecstatic pleasure this buzzing beauty gives you, have fun at home or play in public. Let your lover take control or give yourself titillating thrills with this risqué remote vibe from Lust to Love. Easily activate the bullet’s seven pulsing patterns and intensities with a simple button. It is nearly silent so you can have this treat anywhere!!! Experience the sensation of surprise and elation as you or someone else picks your pleasure. You may even cry out in ecstasy! A must to boost your sexual performance with or without a mate .... Photo: CalExotics®

Monday, September 6, 2010

SPOT ON !

Not since Sex and the City have we seen a television show shape the fashion zeitgeist with quite the reach as AMC’s Mad Men. For fall it's all about the suit, tweed, polka dots and a pencil skirt, designers and fans alike can not get enough of Mad Men’s proto-feminist heroines—Joan, Betty and Peggy—with their lady like style. We are here to tell you the fashion Gods have spoken - tis the season of 'The Lady'! This Fall play around with polka dots, cardigans, full skirts (think Mad Men 2010) for instant ladylike polish and what better way then to get your hands on the uber wallet friendly finds at a|Wear!

We are absolutely head over heels in love with the haute polka dot dress we scored on a|Wear - our one stop shop for trendy looks that won't break the bank! What we here at H&S love about this trend is the experimenting - how one can translate a ladylike look, ( from being demure to showing off a bit of décolleté all with class) and make it modern - and the pieces on a|Wear do just that!

So be a lady and show off your style literately with bookish to Grace Kelly like accessories, proper polka dots, and smart cover-ups for an oh so ladylike season!